To be cruel?

Yesterday my Sister scolding me for almost 1 hour.
She scolding me too "naif", and stupid, because me myself acting too kind and soft to my enemy .

I guess ya, i am too kind to my enemy, cause who debt me $$, i didnt really cruel to chase back my $$$.
Case 1--- one girl owed me $$, because she say she's sick so currently cant give back the $$ to me, then i give her timing about 1 week to hear from her, wish she's healthy now, and free to meet me.
If she dont wnat to or if she can afford , at least---i hope she can meet me to talk.

Then---now, i wait for 2 -3 weeks, she's no respond to me. She's not sick also. (i am the person in the end fall sick, because of my fnancial problem....then i have to work 2 part-times job...)
I have $$ problems, but i still lend my $$$ to her, i hope she understand my situation also... but
lastly, she dissapointed me.
She ask her Boy Friend to deal with me, and in the reverse way, her Boy friend insulted i am the one who Bully her girl frined!!!
(Wait a minuts, we are talk about $$, but why turn the topic to---bully? unhappy? )
So.... .... ....
This is what Penisular Johor muar girl did to me....



My sis ask me to be cruel, maybe i can take her property until she give back me the $$ she owed me.

But i didnt move...

GOD help me..
Tell me what to do.


Am i should just let go, because i debt YOU. MY GOD more than waht she debt me.
(this is what i think i sholud do... let go...)


GOD please Forgive me.

Thankx.